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Rita Webb was Louise, Richard and Geraldine's Aunt. Rita's brother, the actor Henry Webb was their Father and they all now live in Australia along with their mother (Henry's widow) Joan.

Q1.Richard, did Rita and Henry's father re-marry after their mother died?

A. Yes, he did re-marry after Rose died but Auntie and Dad were apparently cruelly treated by his wife and neither of them ever wanted anything to do with that side of the family. They both left that home as soon as they could and my father ended up living with Gus's mother whilst Auntie looked after herself from a young age. Auntie and Dad differed on the qualities of Gus. To Auntie he was always "My Darling Dadda"

Rita hated getting late birthday cards. She always said "I'd rather have it a week early than a day late."

A. I have a photo of Auntie with her twin brothers circa 1906, when she would have been about 2. So Yes, we did know about the Durlacher twins. Dad and Auntie tried to find the twins once, years and years ago but had no success. Now we know why. So we had no idea that Gordon's son was in Australia and were really excited when he tracked down Louise and introduced himself.

Q2. Geraldine, were Rita and Henry aware of their Brothers' existence?

Rita only ever used Morny's lily of The valley soap

NO-ONE was ever allowed in Rita's front room with shoes on, in case they wrecked the carpet

A. Dad was very young. No-one is sure now how young he was, but Mum believes he was in his late teens or 20 at the most. Dad had a cut on his arm that got infected and was painful (It was his left arm and, luckily he was right-handed). He was working at that time as a builder and he went to the Dr as his arm was so sore. The doctor moved his arm up and down and Dad was apparently in excruciating pain but the Dr just said, "So, what do you want? A few days off work?". Dad tried to explain the pain he was in but being young he just went home with his certificate and later, collapsed. Auntie, not having heard from him for 3 days, went round to his flat and it was she who found him unconscious on the floor where he'd lain since the Dr's visit. He was taken to hospital but by that time he had severe blood poisoning (septicaemia). This was before antibiotics. He was extremely ill for months and months and eventually his arm was amputated and a kidney was also removed. He later developed pleurisy. He was in hospital for almost four years (yes, years) in the end as he, not unnaturally, had a complete emotional breakdown as well. When he was released from hospital, he went into acting - but he still did the odd bit of building as well. By the time, I was old enough to notice anything; Dad was completely adept with his one arm. He could tie his own shoelaces, put up shelves, do anything, really, except roll his right sleeve up! I never heard him say, "I wish I had 2 arms" - not once - and he never spoke about losing his arm. It was just a non-issue by the time I was born.

Q3.Geraldine, how did your Father lose his arm?

A. I met Henry after having been introduced to Rita by a friend. My friend and I were looking for accomodation, and my first contact with Henry was through him renting us a room. 

Q4.Joan, can you tell me how you and Henry met

Rita was a complete teetotaller and did not have a drink of alcohol in her whole life

Rita's favourite actress was Marilyn Monroe - Rita thought she was a brilliant, underrated actress

Q5.Louise, when did Rita become a Widow and did she Re-Marry?

A. Rita did not remarry after her marriage to Stanley for a couple of reasons. Firstly because he only, in fact predeceased her by about 8 years. She had no contact with him after she left him about 40 years previously and she only found out that he was dead when contacted by a solicitor, as she was his legal next-of-kin. She thought he'd probably died years before and was surprised to discover that he'd lived so long. Stanley was such a non-event in her life. A brief affair that would have gone unmentioned had she not actually bothered to marry him.

A. She was some years older than Jeffie but he never knew how many years younger than her he was until she died. She told him on her deathbed and said "no more secrets, now, Jeffie". My father told me that - he said Jeffie was surprised (not that it made any difference to him, of course). She always told Jeffie she'd marry him when she was 80. She'd always laugh when she told him that but we all thought she probably would. However, as she was 77 when she died, we'll never know. We always knew her age of course but were never allowed to mention it - not out of vanity but as Auntie said, "If people find out how old I am, I'll never get any bleedin' work as they'll think I'm gonna drop dead halfway through the show" (Great guffaws of laughter).

Q6.Geraldine, did Jeffie know how old Rita was?

Rita's favourite flowers were freesias

A. Jeffie had no contact with any of his family (if he had any living) that we know of, throughout his life with Auntie and he regarded us as his only family. Rita and Jeffie did love each other very much and it is true that he lost the will to live following her death

Q7. Louise What is known of Al Jeffery's Family?

Rita's favourite herb was tarragon

Q8.Richard, did you change your middle name in honour of Al Jeffery?

A. Yes, I did change my name in honour of Jeffie. I hated my middle name but felt that I should take a name within the family so that Dad wouldn't be too hurt about it all and so I thought of Richard Jeffrey. I was very young when I did it, only about 13 and although I never officially changed my name, it's become my legal name by common usage over so many years, although I have recently reverted to using my birth name 'Richard Philip Henry Webb' but I still sign my name R J Webb as before.

Rita could not eat if there was a cat in the room

Rita's favourite song was - Sparrows can't sing

A. Dad always called Auntie "Bunty" - Always. I don't think anyone else did. Mum did occasionally but I think she was just "Bunty" to him and "Podge" to Jeffie. She rang my father EVERY evening at about midnight until she died. She never missed a night.My Dad read a lot and one day he was scolding her for not reading books. "I do read books" says Auntie. "Not proper books" says Dad. "Waddya mean, not proper books - what do you call a proper book?" "Well, " says Dad, "Things like economics". Auntie's voice rises and she yells, "Economics, Ecofuckingomics, I know all there is to know about ecofuckingomics - if you haven't got it, you've got to get it and if you've got, you've got to bleedin' hang on to it." Auntie liked to read murder mysteries and Jeffie went to the library for her every week or so to choose books for her. A real labour of love, especially if he chose the wrong ones.She was such a character. She loved my dad so much and she was so proud of being 'a Webb'. Growing up I thought that 'a Webb' was almost something important, the way auntie talked about it. She'd say (often) "me and my brother know everything in the world between us - what I don't know he knows and vice versa" so, as kids, we'd always reply with something like 'ok, auntie, what's the capital of Mongolia'. She'd start laughing and say, "how the fuck would I know, that's one for your father." she did swear a lot - all the time. When we were little, I was a bit of a rascal and auntie was carrying on about something - swearing of course - and my dad said "Bunty, not in front of the kids" which immediately alerted me to the fact that something untoward had been said so I started chanting 
"Auntie said fucking, auntie said fucking". Quick as a flash, auntie said. "No I didn't. I said fooking, that's near Peking in China." with a wicked look on her face. My dad looked exasperated but auntie was who she was and few people knew that better than him.

Q9. Geraldine, Henry and Rita were very close, tell me a bit about them

A. Dad and Auntie were very close and as she had no children, we were an important part of her life and she was an important part of ours, we saw her regularly and she also spent every Christmas Eve and New Years Eve with us. She bought us "luxuries" that our parents couldn't afford - mainly nice clothes but also bikes and things like that.
At Christmas. She bought our stuffing for the turkey - she made a beautiful chestnut stuffing. Mum always made a HUGE pile of jam tarts for Jeffie. He'd eat tons of them and take the rest home - he loved mum's jam tarts. And auntie always insisted that mum and dad gave her the same thing every year - now this is bizarre, it was dusters, scourers, tea towels, dishcloths etc. all were individually wrapped and put in a big box with wrapping paper all over it. Auntie would then sit down and we'd all watch her unwrap every one of them, exclaiming -"now this a bleeding good scourer, these will last the year out." etc. auntie never bought a tea towel, duster etc because our present lasted her the year.
Auntie also used to give me, Lou and Gel a half-a-crown if we held our knife and fork properly. This was a lot of money to a young Child in those days and explains why we'd often run to the cutlery drawer to get out the knives and forks and show her how well we held them. Auntie always thought our blatant cries of, "Look at me, Auntie, I'm holding mine properly aren't I?" were hilarious - but she always paid up!

Q10 Richard, were you all close to Rita when growing up?

Rita loved going off in the campervan with Jeffie for their two-week annual holiday in Cornwall

Q11.Richard, as children did you all go out for the day with Rita and Jeffie?

A. Yes, we had lots of day trips with Auntie and Jeffie. She took us to DatchetA lot which she loved and to the seaside.

Rita's favourite shop was John Lewis

Q12.Geraldine, what was it like having a famous Aunt?

A. To be frank, I didn't take that sort of interest in her because she was just Auntie to me. Although, I do remember that you'd go out with her and as you were walking down the street, every other person (literally) would say "Hallo, Rita." as they passed and she'd smile and say "Hallo" back. When I was very young and out walking with her for the first time, I thought it was strange that she didn't stop and chat to the "friend" she'd just seen, so I said, "Who was that, Auntie?". "How the fuck would I know?" came the reply. Of course, I quickly realised that everyone seemed to know her and, to be honest, It always made me feel very important to be seen walking with her.

Rita's favourite item of jewellery was a gold charm bracelet
(Jeffie bought her a new charm on every special occasion and Rita always wore it unless she was working)

Q13.Louise, what was Rita's accent really like?

A. Auntie really spoke more or less as she did onscreen except not so raucous unless she was getting angry or making a point. She was more cockney than dad. Dad was self-educated, well read and spoke with a London accent. It wasn't as cockney as auntie's but nor was it plum-in-your mouth either.

A. Auntie really spoke more or less as she did onscreen except not so raucous unless she was getting angry or making a point. She was more cockney than dad. Dad was self-educated, well read and spoke with a London accent. It wasn't as cockney as auntie's but nor was it plum-in-your mouth either.

Rita's favourite gem was her birthstone, amethyst

A. Dad and Auntie had a very poor childhood and it revealed itself in small ways. At one party we had, auntie thought a friend of Louise's was eating too much of the ham off the bone. When he went in the other room, she turned to me and Lou and said 'quick, that fucker's gone, now hide the ham.' We stood there stunned whilst auntie proceeded to wrap up the ham and hide it at the back of the fridge. After we got over the shock, we couldn't stop laughing and "hide the ham" entered the family vocabulary. Lou and I still say it to each other when we're at functions and someone is having a good tuck in. auntie wasn't mean though, far from it, but these small idiosyncrasies of hers revealed her upbringing and her early periods of going without. We all loved her.

Q14. Geraldine, what was Henry and Rita's childhood like?

Rita's favourite part of London was where she lived - Bayswater and the Portobello Road

Q15.Louise, are their any actor's you can think of that had a close friendship with Rita?

A. Auntie did not have a lot of close friends in the theatrical world, as she wasn't one for the Actors party Scene. She just loved being on her own with Jeffie. She did have a close friend in Arthur Mullard , She also knew Barbara Windsor and Warren Mitchell quite well and Auntie was very close friends with both Diana Dors and Sandra Dorne.

Rita's favourite item of clothing was her Kaftan

Q16. Geraldine, what other memories do you have of Rita and Jeffie?

A. Auntie slept in a big double bed with RW painted in gold on the bed head. One night, when I was about 10 I stayed with her, She went to put me in the big bed and I said "There won't be room when you and Jeffie get in the bed".
"He doesn't sleep in here," she said "he sleeps over there." pointing to a single bed against the opposite wall, its headboard facing hers - "I only let him in here on birthdays and at Christmas, these days" she said (more guffaws of laughter). 
One night she was on the phone to someone posh that she was trying to impress. I could only hear her part of the conversation:
"Oooh, how dreadful" - (in posh, Edith Evans voice)
"You don't say"
"Oh, he didn't".......and finally
"Well, fuck me" - in really posh voice
When she got off I said "Auntie you said, "fuck me" to them." "I didn't did I?" she says "You did Auntie" I said and repeated all I'd heard. She thought about it for a moment and then we all erupted into gales of laughter. She didn't care about rules or social convention. It was all meaningless to her. She cared about Jeffie and Dad and us. People not things or rules were what really attered to her.

Geraldine's thoughts on Rita's outfit at her wedding

The dress Auntie chose was "'s premodidantly green, Gel, what do you think?" Thereafter, I thought of lots of things as being "premodidantly" something!!!

Geraldine at her wedding in 1978 with her Auntie Rita

Rita's favourite time of day was the evening, after a good dinner,sitting in the front room with Jeffie on their his and hers recliner armchairs watching TV

Q17.Geraldine, what did Rita think of you going to Australia?

A. Auntie never said much about my coming here, she liked Steve and knew it was what I wanted but she didn't think much of Oz, even though she'd never been here. She thought I'd probably not like it here and would go back home. It was dad that didn't want me to come. He said "can't you wait until I die?" and I said "no, dad, because if I do that I'll be hanging round waiting for you to die and I don't want it to be like that." I remember it all very clearly. I think. In retrospect, they'd have both preferred for me to marry an Englishman but they never said so nor did they ever make me or Steve feel uncomfortable about our choice. Later, of course, everyone come out and dad liked the weather but obviously missed some things about England.

A. I have the last birthday card she sent me - it was in May 1981. I'd seen her when I went home to England in January of that year to show off my newborn daughter, Hana, who was born in November 1980. I saw her a few times and I've got a lovely photo of her and Hana together. Dad put on a party for me. Auntie sang and Jeffie played the banjo as they always did at parties. I sensed Auntie was ill but she wouldn't talk about it. When I left, I just sort of knew that I'd never see her again. That's why I kept the birthday card - I knew it would be the last and I certainly didn't keep anyone else's!

Q18. Geraldine, when was the last time you saw your Auntie? 

Rita's most treasured possession was the photo of "My Darling Dadda"

(Rita also cherished her platinum 'wedding ring' from Jeffie)

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